To make a woman happy is a serious business, however, it is really not too difficult to make a wife happy but you need the following as a husband to make her happy:
1. Be her closest friend. As a friend, you don’t hide anything from her. In other word, no secret must be hiding from her.
2. Be her companion. Always keep her company whether at home or out there.
3. Be her lover. Make sure she is satisfied and always be considerate. Don’t ever deny her sex even when you have misunderstanding.
4. Be her brother even if she has brother(s), since she is married, you automatically become her brother.
5. Since she is married to you, you automatically become her father whether the father is still alive or not.
6. Be her master but not her boss. Always take the lead especially when you sense danger around not taking the back seat when it matters.
7. Once in a while, be her chef, cook for her. Women enjoy their husband’s presence in the kitchen. She shouldn’t be the only one always cooking, even if you don’t know how to cook, taste the soup and help her cut somethings in the kitchen.
8. Be her electrician. It is not everything you call an electrician for. For instance, fixing of bulbs, or joining of wires and other minor things at home.
9. Be her plumber. Help her stop running tap that has minor problem. Or help her wash the filter for pumping water, this does not require the presence of a plumber.
10. Be her mechanic. Checking of engine oil, gear oil, hydraulic oil, check battery seating, amongst others instead calling mechanic for such minor issues.
11. Be her carpenter. Help to hang calendar, frames and others on the wall. This does not require the attention of a carpenter.
12. Be a decorator. Help to decorate the house with picture frames, flower vase décor, table décor. During festive put on the Christmas light and others to make the environment beautiful.
13. Be a stylist. You don’t necessary have to plait her hair but ensuring that the male child(ren)’s hair is cut as at well due including the female if they are not plaiting their hair.
14. Be a sexologist. Don’t be a novice in the area of sex. Women love men who know a lot about sex. They would rather want you to teach them rather than them teaching you, it sounds irritating to them.
15. Be her gynecologist. Have a knowledge about the pregnancy and the baby she is carrying because from time to time, she will want to discuss with you.
16. Be her psychologist. Be observant. Always envisage what she is going through and always think ahead of her on what to do. You should always know her mind.
Also, as the husband, you must be a pest exterminator, not when you see a cockroach or rat, you will be the one to be running.
As the husband, you must be a psychiatrist, a healer or prayer warrior, a good listener, an organizer, be sympathetic.