As a teenager, I remember how our neighbor at every provocation will pack his wife’s bags and luggages and throw them out of his house and tell her to leave his house.
I have also watch on several occasions in movies how some men throw the things belonging to their wives out of their house. This acts continue to repeat itself till date but it seems to have reduced compare to what it used to be but it can be eliminated if women put somethings in place.
1. Men will not think towards throwing their wives’ baggages outside if the women are no longer seen as consumer but investors. If the man sees the woman as somebody that invest every money given to her into profitable venture, a time will come when the man will even run to her for financial support/assistance.
2. By the time the woman begins to acquire properties also, for instance, if the television or sound system in the house or car is faulty and the woman supports or buys it, the man will think twice before he thinks of sending the woman out especially if she owns almost half or more of the property, the man will think of the hours it will take him to pack those things out let alone the usefulness of those things to him.
3. If the woman is the type that contributes towards the running of the home, the man will not want to think of sending such woman away especially when he must have tried other women outside who are mostly consumers.
4. If you are the kind of woman that is useful, you are not seen as a burden or liability, no man, no matter the kind of misunderstanding will first think of sending such woman out but if you are the type of woman that will wait for the man to return from work before you can buy matches or soap, or always the demanding type of person, then you are the type that can easily be send packing at any time.
5. Any woman that is not prudent is a candidate to be sent packing at any time. Women are known to be best managers of resources hence some men share their earnings into two or three parts to them but if the woman is wasteful, of course she will lose the trust of the man especially if she is coming back to ask for more and any little disagreement can lead to the man asking her to leave.
6. When a woman is seen to be indispensable, no reasonable man will want to tell such woman to pack her load and go except the woman has some other deficiencies which cannot be overlooked. Men love women who are indispensable especially those who can stand in for them when they are not around not dummies.
7. No man would think of divorce or sending a woman away if he discovers that the woman is improving by the day. If the woman gets better by the day especially from when she was brought home as a wife, it will be difficult for the man to underrate or compare her with other women especially his girlfriends or lady friend’s outside.
8. There is nothing that men love like innovative women. A woman who is full of ideas will always be the woman to be with anytime anyday because ideas rule the world and one idea might just transform the life of a man hence such a woman will be difficult to be sent away.
So, if you don’t fall into this category of women and you are always depending on man for everything, then you have to think twice. Even if you are hardworking and you don’t have belongings or properties or contribute towards the running of the house, automatically you are a liability and only time will tell how long you will last in that marriage except you want to be treated as a baby-rubber (dummy). But most important is that the woman must be a believer of God, has a good character, be a wonderful person, who is also perfect in other areas as a responsible woman.